So you think you are a 10?

I was volunteering at the school. One of the girls I was volunteering with says to me “I am going to be gossipy…but does Carmen still rate people on a scale of 1 to 10?”

There is a lot of deranged things she has done and said, but haven’t heard this one.

“That’s new to me. What is this all about?”

She goes on to say that she was out at the local sports bar one night and Carmen was telling the group how she rates people, on a scale of one to ten and she turned to Max and said “you are a 3, I am a 10”.

I clarified…”this was recent, not when she was a teenager???”  Apparently in the past 5 years she recalls.

Are you serious? You are an adult and you are rating people on a scale?  And, you think you are a 10?  Wow, what are your standards??? 

Let's list your personal traits: 

v  You had an affair with a woman. And you flaunted that affair in front of your husband by inviting her into the marital home to sleep there despite his pleas otherwise. Than you blamed him for you having the affair.

v  You have on countless occasions denied your daughter to see her father. At times, even sending him or her paternal grandmother away at your front door right in front of your daughter, telling her to be quiet, stop crying and get in the house.

v  You ship your daughter off to her grandmothers to pursue your selfish personal pursuits day after day, avoiding at all costs the use of the father to care for his daughter when you are preoccupied in your own Dragon world.

v  You bully anyone who will not do what you say. People have said they will not cross you as you are so psychotic you would boil a rabbit on their stove top. People “like you” because they are scared of you o don't be mistaken that you are "liked" by your world of Facebook friends. 

v  You have bullied your own daughter – dancing in a skirt of hers that you found to be inappropriate, telling her to keep xyz a secret from Dad or else, keeping her from seeing her father, talking poorly to her about her loved ones on her father's side, list goes on.

v  You have screamed in front of your daughter at her Dad, calling him names; you have vocalized to her that her father is to blame for mistakes you have made.

v  You take no blame. It is everyone else’s fault.

v  You are incapable of apologizing.

v  You lack empathy.

v  You are crude and vulgar.  

Really I could go on, but rather reread each and every post than you tell me, are you a 10? If so, than I have lost faith in humanity if YOU are a 10!